Love and Appreciation

The red poppy has become a symbol of war remembrance all over the world. People in many countries wear the poppy to remember those who died in war or are serving in the armed forces. In many countries, the poppy is worn on Armistice Day (11 November), but in Australia and New Zealand it is most commonly seen on Anzac Day, April 25.

We see Anzac Day as an annual opportunity to show our appreciation for those brave souls who fought for our freedom, often at great sacrifice to themselves and their families. In the 1980’s Anzac Day underwent a renaissance and more young people began attending services all round Australia and New Zealand. Many wear medals won by their grandparents or great-grandparents.

It reminds us too that our elderly loved ones who may not have been to war, have also made sacrifices for their families. If they are living in aged care or at home, a visit, a phone call, even a Skype or video call is so very much appreciated by them. Sometimes you might find they’re grumpy. Of course, we’d all be grumpy if our mind and/or body is not behaving like it used to when we were younger. They’re not grumpy with us, in most cases, they’re grumpy with themselves and losing the skills they once took for granted. Being able to eat and drink freely, is our most basic ‘skill’ next to breathing. The deterioration of this may mean they cannot enjoy the foods they grew up and prepared for and shared with their families. 

On Anzac Day, let’s spare a thought for all our elderly loved ones who have also made sacrifices for the generations who follow them.